Malaysian Men should not be stereotypical

FINALLY,I'm back here..been away for a very long time,no thanks to final examinations and so many incidents that kept on happening in my life..sigh...Either way,this post i wanted to write MONTHS ago,and now i have the chance to do so:)

And so,i have planned to write about Malaysian men. Firstly, before i get whacked by the men, not everyone are like this. but sadly, i seem to be surrounded by MANY of them:D!! If you terasa, that means I'm talking about you la:P

It is men's nature to be naughty. (straight to the point huh?) . Guys want to have fun, they want to flirt, get to know new girls, heck, if things get better, they want to fling, and if they get REALLLY lucky, they want to end up sleeping with her. WOW, doesn't that just sound amazingly FUN!?!??! of course it is, and in return, since not all girls are "fling-able", they got to target those that are such,and try to have fun with them.
Yes, guys love to do it so much, then, why do they end up calling this "fling-able" girls "slut,whore,bitch" and stuff? i mean, it might sound naughty if you do that in bed:P, but it certainly isn't nice to say that about a girl that you want to have fun with! You want girls to be like that, so when they ARE like that, WHY do you complain about how they are?

" that girl is a slut la..she just goes to club, dance with guys and sleep with them" - quoted from someone:P

now,that does seem like as thought he doesnt like her,right? but in truth, he WANTS to go to club with her, dance with her and sleep with her too!! then, WHY COMPLAIN!?

Then,there is the type of guys that categorize girls. There are a few categories of course, such as "homely", " naughty" , " too commited" and quite a few more. but, how do they categorize them? MOST TYPICALLY, by the clothes they wear. yes, while at times, it might reflect that person, but it is totally unfair to categorize girls according to the clothes they wear. Just because a girl wears a spaghetti strap and short skirt, that doesnt make her kinky or naughty. She could be just fashionable, and she might actually be a very modest nice girl. And trust me, if a girl covers up from top to bottom, that doesnt mean she is a good girl AT ALL! clothes, are misleading. fashion is actually:P i once had a friend who saw a girl walking by and said " she looks like she wants to be fucked"......................
WOW! he must a psycic!! i wonder how he knows that!? his answer was, " yeah,look at what she is wearing!" and when i did,she was wearing a tshirt and jeans. yes, they are tight, but then again, she has a very nice body, so the clothes she wear happen to fit her nicely.i BET no guy would want to see a girl in baggy tshirt and super baggy pants and u can never see a girls bodyshape, no?

lets forget clothing. lets talk about attitude. Guys, LOVE to flirt and play around with girls. it seems sooo fun for them! Heck, some even do it eventhough they have a girlfriend! they just want to have fun,according to them. plus, its not so wrong, you are just flirting, not like you are cheating on anyone....yes...put it that way,reverse the position and see..if a girl flirts with another guy, they make it seem like a BIG SIN!! so what does that mean? guys can go around have fun and flirt with girls, but girls cant do the same? reason : " its just not ladylike" ...yes,and what you are doing is very "gentleman" isnt it? IF you do not like your girlfriend to flirt around, then dont do it yourself!!

Lets talk about the usual stuff people do. smoking and drinking. Its very common for guys to smoke and drink. in fact, it seems like a necessity to do that. the more you do it, the more 'gempak' you are! but what happens if a girl smokes? " oo..she is bad..how can a girl smoke? "
why suddenly the taboo:S? if a guy got drunk in a club,people go "yeah yeah whatever" if a girl gets drunk in a club " oh my god she got drunK!? u mean she actually DRINKS!?"
hell, some guys dont want their girlfriends to go to club, but they do so every week! such fairness, so SWEET:P

the best answer given to me why girls shouldnt smoke was " ya la..nanti diorang nak jadi emak kena mengandung kan?"....yeah and ur not part of the process of the " melakukan pengandungan?" in the end, your genes are gonna be there too!! so why does it make a difference? at the end of the day, if you dont like her to smoke, dont smoke yourself. its dumb when you ask someone to not do something, but then you do it yourself.

Lets talk about the fun part. SEX. guys love it SO MUCH (so do i:P LOL). but even though they love it, i have heard this one line too many times that i MUST mention it here.

" i wanna fuck my girlfriend but i want to marry a virgin"

thats like you are trying to say you want a girlfriend just for the sake of fucking her. check out the sincerity:P

if you know you are going to have fun earlier in life before you get married, then do expect to end up with a girl who has already had sex before.i mean, it is SEX! it is a fun thing , it should be people's hobby! dont take it too seriously if your wife is a virgin or not! coz certainly, YOU ARENT!

another quote " dont fuck your girlfriend. thats not nice. fuck another girl"

WOW! even better!!! that shows that he is really sincere! that he wants her to stay a virgin,and marry her later! such sincerity,*sob sob*
so he should just fuck another girl! i bet his girlfriend wont be jealous!
dude,if you HOLD HANDS with another girl, she will end up strangling you. you actually want to fuck someone else:P?
( shut up,i know what u are going to say. what she doesnt know doesnt hurt,right? BASTARD:P)

so, end to end, why some guys think of certain girls so badly? if a guy has many ex-girlfriends, he is such a cool and wanted guy.but if a girl has many ex-boyfriends, she is called "used too often". (you dont even know if she was used at all:S)

SOME guys, just seriously, need to change their attitude about girls. many, dont see them for anything more than "sex bombs"...girls can be more than that:) i am not saying all guys are such, but i am speaking about the typical ones. somehow, guys in overseas love kinky naughty girls,they want them as their girlfriends and they still will treat them nicely! (i know,i have plenty of overseas friends that i HAVE to talk to everyday:P)
but some guys here, they cant think of 'fun' girls and 'girfriend' material as the same girl itself. your girlfriend can be FUN and SWEET at the same time,no? why do you need two type of girls!? think about it, do not be too typical:)

*psst..if you terasa, sorry la wei:P i know i took some of you people's quotes, sorry, but heck, you remained anonymous:P*













PS: i dedicate this post a special girl who makes me smile every single day. Thank you very much for everything you have done for me:)